Divorce Law – Child Custody Laws In India

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Divorce laws can be extremely difficult for most couples and spouses to make sense of. However, it is essential for them to understand the basics when it comes to the many terms and conditions of divorce in India.

The child custody laws in India are very straightforward, which in turn makes it difficult for parents to comprehend, plan, and prepare for a secure future for their child(ren) once they are divorced.

Child custody laws in IndiaLet’s try to make things simple by trying to break out the various aspects of the laws that govern the whereabouts and welfare of children after the divorce of his/her legal parents.

For most parents, seeking the custodial rights of their child is a matter of fighting off the other parent, who much like them, wants sole custody.

The most important factor that couples should take into consideration is to ensure that whatever the decision my be, the welcome of the child in question is adequately looked after.

Custodial rights for a divorce in India are divided into two related components – physical and legal. Earlier, most judges would grant the custody to the mother, but now a growing number of cases have seen the right being shared by both parents, which is legally referred to as shared legal responsibility.

As per the judicial system that is adhered to in India, a parent, who has legal guardianship, is responsible for the welfare of the child(ren) in question.

Many at times, the court allots both spouses joint decision making responsibility for making decisions like education, health, religion, and welfare.

While dealing with such a case, the presiding judge may also ask for the opinion of the minor, whose thoughts and comments may be taken into consideration. This is dependent on the two factors – the child’s age, and the nature of his/her relationship with the parents.

The times in India have changed since the time when mothers were granted custody without second thought. The judges at the time, would also grant healthy alimony and child support to insure that both, mother and child, are looked after for.

Since times are changing, and a growing number of women now have full-time jobs, the legal system has made appropriate adjustments, where the kid’s welfare plays a major role in the court’s final decision pertaining to custodial rights.

Child custody laws of divorce in India

Here is a basic summary of the different child custody laws in India, as categorized by religious beliefs, by the Indian penal code:

  • Hindu law

The Hindu Minority and Guardianship Act 1956, along with the Guardians and Wards Act 1890, lays down the rules of guardianship in India. It states that while the natural guardian of a minor is the father, the custodial responsibility of infants should be awarded to the mother.

Despite these notes, such cases are generally inclined in the favor of the mother, since Indian society sees the relationship and bond that mother and child share to be more essential, and thereby nurturing.

  • Muslim law

Under the Muslims laws for divorce in India, the foremost right of custody belongs to the mother, and is known as the “right of hizanat“. In case the mother is disqualified, the father can be given custody as dictated by law.

This is however a time-bound right. After the child has come of age, the father can contest, and gain, legal guardianship.

  • Parsee Law

Laws pertaining to the custody of children is provided in the Parsi Marriage and Divorce Act, 1936 under section 49.

  • Christian law

There are no specific laws laid down for the Indian Christian community, which is why the 1956 Act is applied in this case.

Since a divorce can be especially traumatic for children, parents should take special care to keep them away from the arguments and fallout, that most divorces tend to come with.

Uncontested divorces are the best option for parents who don’t want to get involved in lengthy proceedings, which in some cases has been known to take years together.

The subject of child custody in India is difficult to deal with, primarily since the Indian society still shuns and looks down upon divorced couples. At times, innocent children too have to bear the brunt that such intolerance brings with itself.

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ALFRED March 8, 2011 at 2:45 pm

RESPECTED SIRS.

PRESENTLY SELF GOING THROUGH LOTS OF MARITAL PROBLEMS. MYSELF FROM BARODA MARRIED TO A GOAN GIRL ON 29/04/2006 AT BARODA. HAVE 2 KIDS, 1 BABY BORN ON 24/10/08 & JUST BORN SON ON 22/11/10. MY WIFE WENT WITH HER BROTHER & SISTER ON 14/06/10 SAYING WILL COME BACK WITHIN A MONTH AFTER SEEING HER FAMILY. I WENT TWICE TO COLLECT HER IN MID JULY & AUGUST. BUT STILL DID NOT COME BACK. AGAIN WENT IN NOV/DEC AFTER SON WAS BORN. NOW INSPITE OF MY REPEATED REQUESTS NOT COMING BACK NOR GIVING THE CHILDREN TO TALK SINCE LAST MORE THEN 2 MONTHS. ALL THE TIME FIGHTING FOR MONEY AND FOR LIVING SEPERATELY (PRESENTLY LIVING WITH MY AGED PARENTS (DAD – 80 & MOM 72 YRS) TO WHICH ALSO I AGREED. BUT STILL FIGHTING ALL THE TIME AND NOT TAKING ANY NAME OF COMING BACK. ALSO JUST COME TO KNOW THAT SHE HAS ALSO DONE THE BAPTISM OF MY CHILD WITHOUT INFORMING ME OR MY FAMILY. HER PARENTS AND BROTHERS ARE ALSO ALL THE TIME THRETENING ME AND BLACKMAILING TO LISTEN TO EACH AND EVERYTHING OF THEM OR FACE DIRE QUENCQUNCIES. STAYING AT HER SISTERS PLACE WHOSE NOT HAVING KIDS AND VERY MUCH INTRESTED IN MY KIDS. PL ADVICE AND GUIDE HOW TO BRING THEM BACK.

THANING YOU

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Sanjayita Saha April 6, 2011 at 6:14 am

I got divoreced last year my son is 5 years now. His custody is with me as mt husband has never claimed for parental rights. I had not claimed any aliminey amount for my divorce. My husband has never attended the court and the judgement was EX-party.

Now i want to know can my son use myparental surname or he has to continue with my EX-husbands surname.
Is it compulsory for him to write his biological fathers name in all legal documents.

Please guide me.

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Pallavi Pantula April 15, 2011 at 6:16 pm

I have the same question like Sanjayita. Requesting to post an answer if anyone knows. How to get the legal custody?

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shrizz April 17, 2011 at 4:08 pm

salaam,
my brother is going through bad marriage since last 16 years and he wants to divorce his wife they don’t have any relationship and don’t even live in the same bedroom my brother sleeps in hall and bhabhi in bedroom with children they have 3 children and they just together because of children but my brother doesnt wants to be in this relationship at all becauze my bhabhi doesnt treats my parents and children nicely and he treid divorcing her many times but my father is to much concerned about the society my brother is not at all happy because of all this he cannot concentrate on his work and has gone into depth as well he wants to give my bhabhi divorce but my father is emotionaly blackmailing him by not taking his medicines my bhabhi had left the house and had gone to her place for 2 and half months she had left the children alone and dint even called up once to ask about them bacause of which my father took tension and got a slight brain stroke and his children also presurised him to get her back because of which he had to get her back forcefully but he is not at all happy please help i want to know can my parents force him to be in this relationship and as we scared that something might happen to my father if my brother takes a firm step and secondly as i mentioned my brother has gone into depth so will he have to pay anything to my bhabhi if he divorces her? and whom will the children be?and also as i mentioned early they dont have husband wife relationship and sleep seperate so does the divorce take place in such condition?please help and sugest what can be done as he wants to be out of this as its affecting his health and his profession life as well and how to convience my father as we cant tel him directly as he is too much worried about his reputation in the society as well as he is forcing my brother to compromise for children and my brother did that for past 16 years but cant live like this anymore.please help and sugest what to do and how to go about as all situation are really going bad and he is to much stressed.please..

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sabyasachi May 29, 2011 at 10:45 am

I want to know the rule in case of custody where one’s wife had an affair with other person and divorced file for that reason.

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manojit July 22, 2011 at 4:34 pm

how i get the custodial right of my two son of 6 and 5 years if i go for divorce

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natasha August 25, 2011 at 6:35 pm

Hi am in need of some urgent advice, me a catholic have married a Hindu its been 7 years of marriage of which we have 2 girls. aged 6 n 4. My really fed up of my life and where all this is heading. My Husband has been gambling ever since my 2nd baby was born He has taken so many loans from banks from people and have even pawned my gold in the bank, ever since we got married and has not even once tried to release it but on the other hand goes and renews it and takes more money every time. He even lost his job and was at home for a year, He got a job back ans instead of being happy with his earnings he has started visiting the casinos and blowing up his entire salary there. If I try to stop him he uses flity language mentally and verbal torture i am going thru. He also hits me very badly. We live in a rented house And I do not see any secure future for me or my girls. I have had it and want to seperate from him. Pls help me as what i am to do. Sorry I am a housewife as he does not allow me to work forget that I am not allowed to socialize or go any where out of the house without his permission

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